My Ugly Bullet Journal

About a month ago, a friend turned me on to the bullet journal. If you're unfamiliar, there's a short, excellent video to walk you through it.

The video motivated me  to act. I found a perfect Moleskin notebook, added a pen loop so I'd never be without a writing instrument, and happily set about creating my bullet journal. 

After a few days of using the bullet journal, with its system for capturing tasks versus notes, I was completely hooked. All of my notes and To Dos are in one place. I also added a tracker for my workouts and weight loss efforts, and have included reference pages that have proved to be very useful to have on hand. I have my bullet journal with me most of the time, and I feel 100% more in control.

I actually look forward to getting settled at work every day so I can pore over my bullet journal entries over my morning tea. I am that much of a nerd. I get a little jolt of joy every time I cross out an item on my list.

Recently I looked up "bullet journal" on Pinterest, just to see how other people used theirs. There are some really creative people out there -  I felt immediately and completely inadequate. Some of these bullet journals are works of art: beautiful calligraphy, lots of color, even some elaborate illustrations.

And then there's mine.

I use a standard, office-issue black pen. I have ridiculously bad handwriting, so the pages are filled with scrawling chicken-scratch. I actually tried to emulate one of the perfect Pinterest people and create a cool, two-page layout to illustrate my goals for the year. I ended up with a series of unevenly-drawn frames and various ink colors smeared across the page. An artist I ain't. 

But here's the thing - you can't let perfect be the enemy of good. My bullet journal has become my absolute most valuable tool to stay organized and on top of my ever-growing To Do list. It's not pretty - but as Bruce Springsteen says, "You ain't a beauty, but hey, you're all right."

Paring Down Your Stuff to Free Up Yourself

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Because I am productivity-minded, one of my greatest pleasures in life is decluttering. Every few months I get inspired to go on a massive purge so I can pare down to just those things  I really want or need.

My most recent inspiration for The Great Purge came from - where else? - The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing. This is not a new book - it was just new to me. I devoured it in one sitting and vowed to change my evil,  materialistic ways so I could become one with the universe.

Or just maybe so I could open my closet without having a panic attack.



If you haven't read this book yet, you must. You may not agree with some of the more spiritual elements (i.e., thanking items before you discard them) or some of the advice (i.e., folding your underwear into an aesthetically-pleasing package), but the logic is undeniable. You can't truly relax until your house is in order.

Thus, I am on a quest to pare down all the things with which I share space to ensure I’m surrounded by stuff I love or can’t live without.

The biggest thorn in my cluttered side? My wardrobe.

I will state up front that I am in no way a fashionista, and my personal style can best be described as functional. But even for those style mavens among us, it’s a worthy exercise to consider everything in your closet.

Here’s the process I followed – influenced in part by The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up - and the things I learned:

The Great Purge

I started by combing through ALL of my clothes, going through my dresser drawers and closet to remove anything that I haven’t worn in at least 6 months. As I threw items into the pile, I realized I was getting rid of things that. . .

• . . .fit, but were itchy or caused some other discomfort, or made me look fat
• . . .didn’t fit, so made me FEEL fat

These things, I realized, were pretty damaging to my psyche – and I was exposing myself to them every single morning! Why should I do that to myself?

I also found myself getting rid of things that . . .

• . . . have been hanging around for a while until I could find something to wear with it
• . . . require WAY too much maintenance (anything that requires ironing pretty much never sees the light of day)
• . . . I really WANTED to look good in, but didn’t
• . . . people bought me as gifts that I knew upon receiving I’d NEVER wear, but I felt bad about returning them

Now, it’s important to note – I did not throw these clothes away or donate them to charity – yet. I am going to give myself a few weeks to see if I miss anything that made it to the pile. So far, so good.

Rebuilding -  the smart way

After the purge, my closet is looking a little thin. So here is my next project: shopping for wardrobe essentials – those building blocks upon which you can create several different looks. Here are links to a few guidelines I’ll be using to create my list:

RealSimple Wardrobe Basics Checklist

Glamour:10 Wardrobe Essentials Every Woman Should Own

The ChicFashionista Wardrobe Essentials

Resolutions

I learned a few things about myself throughout this process, which led me to create a list of resolutions:

Learning #1 : I hate to try things on at the store – which leads me to buy things that don’t fit, look weird, or otherwise offend.

Resolution #1: Going forward, I will try on EVERYTHING. I’ll only shop when I know I have enough time to try things on, and I will strive to get over the fact that I’m easily grossed out by dressing rooms. (Don't judge. I always end up in one that has hair all over the floor, or a used Band-Aid, or whatever.)

Learning #2: I hate returning things – I always feel a little shamefaced when I take things back. Like the store clerk is judging me for my fickleness.

Resolution #2: If I succeed in Resolution #1, this won’t be an issue. But should I ever need to return something, I’ll need to get over myself. Store clerks probably don’t have the time to internally assess my character every time I bring back a pair of jeans that create love handles.

Learning #3: I like having all my clothes clean all the time.

Resolution #3: My husband and I go through an astonishing number of clothes in a week. Previously I saved all my laundry for the weekend – and as the week wore on, the dirty clothes pile outgrew the laundry baskets containing them. So Resolution #3 is – I will do a load of laundry EVERY NIGHT. I’ve been doing this now for about a week, and I have to tell you, it’s pretty rewarding to have an empty clothes hamper every night. Plus, if I want to wear the same tank top or socks or gym shirt  in the same week, I know they’ll be clean.

Through this process, I freed up a lot of closet space as well as two dresser drawers. There’s something freeing about having fewer things to sort through every morning as I get ready for work – and knowing that everything there has survived the great purge because it fits, it looks good, and I don’t have to iron it.

Up next: my office . . . .